It Took Me 6 Months To Fall In Love…

According to the movies, falling in love is grand act that happens in as little as 3 days. Love comes easy and fast and both parties are enthusiastic participants. The is no question about wants, or needs. Fear may linger but it doesn’t stop love from growing and developing. According to the movies, falling in love is easy. Maybe falling in love with another person … Continue reading It Took Me 6 Months To Fall In Love…

10 of the Most Attractive Qualities A Man Can Have

As a sort of newbie to the adult dating world, I have met guys that I was into, and guys that completely missed the mark. Through past relationships and dating, I’ve developed a pretty good idea about the kind of man I would want to be with. A man is most attractive to me when he :

Is slow to anger

There is nothing more unattractive than a guy that can’t keep his cool. We all get upset, but that does not mean that we have to get defensive. A man that is able to think before reacting shows a high level of maturity, and character.

Has some kind of hobby

Honestly, I think everyone should have a hobby. We all need to spend time focusing on something that is not work related. I love seeing the intensity guys have when playing intramural sports, or hearing about why or how he got into comic books. Most times we don’t get paid for our hobbies, so it’s kind of cool when a guy does his passion without getting paid.

Maintains masculinity without being controlling

Many times people equate being a man with being in charge or in control. Sometimes, if a guy is not in control he might feel like he is being emasculated. A man that understands balance knows that he can still feel like a man without controlling every situation. In relationships, a man might be the captain of his team (or relationship, partnership, etc.). A good captain knows that he is an equal part of the team, and knows how to lead without making his teammate feel inferior. Continue reading “10 of the Most Attractive Qualities A Man Can Have”