According to the movies, falling in love is grand act that happens in as little as 3 days. Love comes easy and fast and both parties are enthusiastic participants. The is no question about wants, or needs. Fear may linger but it doesn’t stop love from growing and developing. According to the movies, falling in love is easy. Maybe falling in love with another person … Continue reading It Took Me 6 Months To Fall In Love…
With wedding season coming to end, my hope is that it will end the season of being asked “Why Are You Single?”. It feels like on a weekly basis people question my dating life. If they aren’t asking why I am single, they are asking when I’m going to settle down. If I had to give a short answer it would be, “I have no … Continue reading Stop Asking People “Why Are You Single?”
It’s been awhile since a song that wasn’t gospel affected me emotionally. The last song was “Not In That Way” by Sam Smith and even then, I didn’t feel a rush as big as the one I felt yesterday. After I posted my song of the week by Lianne La Havas, I decided to listen to her album from 2012. The first couple of songs … Continue reading I Lost Myself in Love
As a sort of newbie to the adult dating world, I have met guys that I was into, and guys that completely missed the mark. Through past relationships and dating, I’ve developed a pretty good idea about the kind of man I would want to be with. A man is most attractive to me when he :
Is slow to anger
There is nothing more unattractive than a guy that can’t keep his cool. We all get upset, but that does not mean that we have to get defensive. A man that is able to think before reacting shows a high level of maturity, and character.
Has some kind of hobby
Honestly, I think everyone should have a hobby. We all need to spend time focusing on something that is not work related. I love seeing the intensity guys have when playing intramural sports, or hearing about why or how he got into comic books. Most times we don’t get paid for our hobbies, so it’s kind of cool when a guy does his passion without getting paid.
Maintains masculinity without being controlling
Many times people equate being a man with being in charge or in control. Sometimes, if a guy is not in control he might feel like he is being emasculated. A man that understands balance knows that he can still feel like a man without controlling every situation. In relationships, a man might be the captain of his team (or relationship, partnership, etc.). A good captain knows that he is an equal part of the team, and knows how to lead without making his teammate feel inferior. Continue reading “10 of the Most Attractive Qualities A Man Can Have”
This past weekend I got to spend some time with my sister and she got me hooked on “First”, a web series about a couple and their first experiences with each other. One episode featured this song by Stacy Barthe and I’ve been hooked ever since. Enjoy and Happy Monday! Continue reading Song of the Week: Stacy Barthe – Extraordinary Love